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                      •   Discover a simple-easy conflict that can interfere with your
                          productive choices, and learn to see through that conflict.
                      •   Find the key to a double-agenda dilemma that, if left
                          undetected, can leave you baffled why you procrastinate
                          when you tell yourself you want to go a different way. You’ll
                          learn to redirect your efforts by putting the emphasis on the
                          right syllable.
                      •   Use a cognitive action exercise for putting the dilemma into
                          perspective and giving weight to a realistic view.
                      •   Learn how to free yourself from procrastination impulses
                          and put yourself on a purposeful and productive cognitive,
                          emotive, and behavioral path by slowing down, creating a
                          productive perspective, and  acting on that perspective.


                      Emotional Procrastination


                      Procrastination has a strong emotional component. I’ve seen hun-
                      dreds of people who complained about their procrastination who
                      either don’t tune into their procrastination emotions, recoil from
                      them, or ignore them. Emotional conditions associated with forms
                      of procrastination are varied and complicated, and in the following
                      I point to some of these complications:


                      •   You may get emotional signals following perceptions of up-
                          coming productive activities that you view as ego-threatening
                          (a threat to your sense of worth or image) or uncomfortable.
                          These threat sensations can range from whispers of unpleas-
                          ant emotions to a distinctive emotion of anxiety or fear. Either
                          the whisper of unpleasant emotion or the emotion may be
                          sufficient to divert you from the activity you connect to it.
                      •   Procrastination may be affected by mood. Moods are a gray
                          area of consciousness; they can reflect your disposition, your
                          temperament, your circadian rhythms, your sleep patterns,
                          barometric changes, and other such factors. You can create a
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