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fists)? Once you get the posture right and eliminate any
                          unnecessary habitual movements, you should feel free to
                          gesture and move about as much or as little as is natural
                          for you.    Answering Interview Questions
                       • Are you fidgeting or feeling unsure of where to place
                          your hands while talking to an interviewer? Simply
                          rest one hand on each of your legs, or fold them in
                          your lap.


                   You will feel most relaxed and comfortable if you just allow your-
                   self to enjoy expressing yourself as you would in any situation.
                       Just one more hint: Mirror your interviewer’s rate and style
                   of speech. If you match your rate of speech to the speed of the
                   interviewer’s speech, your interviewer will unconsciously feel
                   more of a rapport with you. Most of the time you will not need to
                   do this, but if you get a real fast talker or a real slow drawler, that
                   person will tend to feel more comfortable with you if you are clos-
                   er to his or her rate of speech. Practice this with a friend or with
                   someone you meet, and see how this matching technique will
                   help you to feel more at ease.
                       Before we move on to salary negotiation, let’s make sure
                   you’ve mastered the interviewing ingredients to get a top offer!
                   Take a moment to test your readiness with this checklist. If you
                   can check every box, you’re an interviewing pro!


                         I know that the best strategy for answering straightfor-
                           ward questions is to tell stories with specifics and to use Q
                           statements to highlight my skills, personal traits, compe-
                           tencies, and accomplishments.
                         I’ve done some research on the company so I know
                           which of my attributes to emphasize during the
                           interview.
                         I can answer the question, “What do you know about
                           our company?”

                         I know that the strategy for answering a question behind
                           a question is to figure out the real fear or concern behind
                           the question and then to answer it in a way that puts the
                           fear or concern to rest.


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