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        can always remake and refi ne your board when the vision of
        your goal becomes clearer. For right now, you’re just trying to
        get at the pulse of it all—the basic colors, shapes, sizes, and
        emotions.







        WHOSE PERSPECTIVE?



        I really want you to give those visual skills a workout—again,
        not to develop your artistic talent, but rather to sear the picture
        of your goal into your memory. The artists out there will notice
        that I didn’t mention perspective. That’s because perspective
        deserves a special mention. Imagine you’ve just created a highly
        detailed picture of yourself having achieved your weight-loss
        goals (nice body, by the way). Now the question becomes, how
        do you see yourself? Are you looking at the picture of yourself
        from outside of yourself (like a spouse, friend, or even stranger
        looking at you)? Or are you looking through your own eyes (like
        you’re looking at yourself in the mirror)? Seems like a semantic
        difference, doesn’t it? Turns out the difference is way bigger
        than you’d think.
            Some Oxford University researchers gave subjects 100 dif-
        ferent positive messages (like “It’s Saturday morning—the start
        of the weekend . . .”) and asked them to do a little visualization
        exercise, imagining themselves in a particular situation. The
        subjects were divided up, and two of the groups were assigned
        to imagine themselves either from a fi rst-person perspective
        (looking through their own eyes) or a third-person perspective
        (looking at themselves as though through someone else’s eyes).
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