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176                              Don't Be Absent-minded
               occupied" as  one  of  the definitions of  absent-minded,  and
               that just  about  hits  the nail  on  the  head. The little things
               that we do continually, like putting down  things, are  just
               not  important enough to occupy our  minds—so,  we  become
               absent-minded.
                  It stands to  reason that if  you put  things away without
               thinking, or mechanically,  you'll  forget  where they are,
               because you  never  remembered in the  first place.  When  you
               leave your  house,  you usually worry about  whether you
               locked your  door or  not, simply because  you  locked it  un-
               consciously, without giving it a thought.
                 So, I've solved your  problem! To avoid absentmindedness,
               think what you're doing.  I  know, you're thinking, "I  knew
               that. If I were able  to think  each  time I  put  something
               away,  or  locked  a door, I wouldn't be  absent-minded!"
               Okay, then, why not  use conscious associations  to  help you
               remember trivial  things?  You can,  you know,  and it's easy
               to do.
                 For example, one  thing that  is annoying to all  of  us,  is
               forgetting  to mail letters. You either  forget to take  them
               when you  leave your house, or,  if you do  take  them,  they
               remain  in your pocket  for days.  If you  want  to be sure  that
               you take the  letter with  you when you  leave the house, do
               this:— First  decide what  it is  that you  do  or see  at the very
               last  moment upon  leaving your house. I personally see  the
               doorknob of  my  front door,  because  I  check  it to  see if the
               door is  locked.  That  is the last thing I do, so I  make a  ridicu-
               lous association  between doorknob  and  letter. When I leave
               my house  the  next morning, I'll check the doorknob; once
               I think of doorknob, I'll  recall my ridiculous association
               and remember that I must take the letter!
                  The  last  thing that you  do before you  leave your house,
                may be entirely different; you may kiss your wife or husband
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