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QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD NEVER INITIATE



                       Five Rules for Using Humor

           1.  Poke fun at yourself only, nothing else.
           2. Follow the interviewer’s lead.
           3. Don’t force it.
           4. Never use sarcasm at any time.
           5. If in doubt, don’t.




        viewers tell jokes because they are uncomfortable or don’t know
        what else to do. In either case, resist the temptation to create a false
        rapport by exchanging jokes. It doesn’t advance the interview, and
        little good can come of it. Do listen to the subtext of the joke and
        come back with a question that indicates the joke gave you a serious
        insight into the situation:

        I appreciate the way you said that. It’s true, isn’t it, that communica-
        tion breakdowns come in the most unexpected ways. And while it can
        sometimes be funny, communication breakdowns impose real costs on
        the organization. Company-wide intranets offer substantial benefi ts to
        cross-departmental communications. At my last job, I led the team
        that developed . . .
        If you must tell a joke, make sure it is short and pokes fun at your-
        self or some general issue of work. If it’s about the job-interviewing
        process, so much the better. Never tell more than one joke, no matter
        how much you are coaxed.



        QUESTIONS ABOUT THE INTERVIEWER
        Because individuals relate to individuals, it’s natural that applicants
        want to know about the interviewer. The interviewer also happens
        to be the most immediate representative of the company they hope
        to join. Is it appropriate to ask questions about the interviewer’s his-
        tory, opinions, and experience?




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