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Speaking of . . .


                  Listening to Feedback from the Audience

                  Of course, as a speaker, you need to know how to receive   prove your speaking skills. Don’t let yourself get emotional
                  the feedback given by your classmates and instructor. Once   or defensive; it will only make the situation worse. Ultimately,
                  a speech is over, you become a listener or a reader of written   however, you have to be true to yourself. Take the comments
                  evaluations. The most important suggestion we can make   as what they are—opinions, albeit educated ones. Use the
                  for this role is to avoid the very traps that befall poor lis-  feedback to improve your speaking, but don’t allow your-
                  teners. Avoid deciding that the feedback is uninteresting or   self to become so obsessed with it that you become overly
                  biased. Hear out your critics, even if you disagree with their   anxious about speaking. Keep in mind the techniques we
                  judgment. Focus on the main points; don’t get distracted   discussed in Chapter 3 for dealing with public speaking anx-
                  by nitpicking. Take notes on what is said. Be genuinely in-  iety. The same principles apply to the anxiety that occurs
                  terested—after all, the reason for taking the class is to im-  when we know we are going to be evaluated.





                                        •  Did the speaker connect with the audience?
                                        •   Did the speaker organize the speech in a manner that was easy to follow?
                                        •   Were the main points previewed in the introduction and summarized in the
                                         conclusion?
                                        •   Did the speaker use good evidence to support claims? Were the sources of
                                         evidence disclosed and were they of high quality? Did the evidence justify the
                                         claims being made?
                                        •   Did the speaker use understandable and appropriate language? Were unfa-
                                         miliar terms defi ned?
                                        •   Did the speaker deliver the speech effectively? Was it easy to hear the
                                         speaker’s voice? Were the gestures and movement of the speaker effective or
                                         distracting?
                                        •   Overall, how effective was the speech in informing, persuading, or entertain-
                                         ing you as an audience member?



                                        Rules of the Road:

                                        Improving Specifi c Listening Skills


                                        Regardless of type and goal, there are some specifi c rules of the road for listen-
                                        ing. These tried and true techniques can help any listener do a better job. Many
                                        of these techniques will work in both public speaking and face-to-face interper-
                                        sonal settings. Keep these rules in mind whatever your listening situation:
                  mindfulness             •  Be mindful. Mindfulness involves conscious awareness of the speech
                  The conscious aware-     transaction including the people involved, their purpose for gathering,
                  ness of the speech       and the context in which they fi nd themselves. Mindful listeners live in
                  transaction including the   the present and are attuned to what is taking place as it happens. Effective
                  people involved, their
                                           listening demands mindfulness.
                  purpose for gathering,
                                          •  Choose to selectively attend to the speech transaction. We live in a world where
                  and the context in which
                  they fi nd themselves.    many sources are competing for our attention throughout our day. Because
                                           we cannot possibly attend to all of these sources and their messages, we
                  122                      select relatively few, usually because they are potential sources of reward.
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