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Chapter 1  Practical Speaking                 17



                      Take a close look at the lithograph by M. C. Escher on
                    this page. Though it appears at fi rst glance that the water
                    is running downhill, a more careful examination tells you
                    that this is impossible because the water is fl owing con-
                    tinuously. Escher was able to create “impossible illusions”
                    by taking advantage of our perceptual predispositions.
                    We assume that the perspective in this print is an accu-
                    rate representation of reality, when, of course, it cannot be
                    so. When people look at an ambiguous stimulus such as
                    this picture, they automatically look for something famil-
                    iar . . . something for which they have a preexisting mean-
                    ing. This helps fool the eye, in this case, into seeing some-
                    thing that cannot exist.
                      Again, this tendency to perceive the familiar is both
                    good and bad from the standpoint of public speaking. It is
                    good because it enables us to quickly establish a reference
                    point from which we can plan our own speaking behavior
                    as well as interpret that of others. It’s bad because it can
                    blind us to other data that may be even more important to
                    how we behave and interpret the messages of others.
                      Consider a cross-cultural example. Direct eye contact
                    is perceived as a sign of attention and respect in most of   This lithograph, Waterfall (1961), by M. C.
                    North America. Thus, when we give a speech, we use this   Escher, creates an “impossible illusion”
                    knowledge to gauge how our audience is reacting to our   by taking advantage of our perceptual
                                                                           predis positions.
                    message and delivery. This North American norm, how-
                    ever, is not universal. Direct eye contact in some cultures,
                    such as certain Asian societies, is perceived as an aggres-
                    sive sign of disdain and disrespect.
                      It’s common, then, for unaware North Americans who speak in one of these
                    cultures to walk away from the experience with their confi dence severely shaken.
                    They mistakenly perceive their audience’s lack of eye contact with them as a
                    sign of disapproval. This mistaken perception, in turn, usually has a negative
                    infl uence on their entire speaking performance.
                      As a public speaker, you can never assume that your perceptions of such
                    things as the context, your audience, or the messages your audience feeds back to
                    you are foolproof. Just because some person, some place, or some circumstance
                    strikes you as familiar, that doesn’t necessarily make it so.


                      Words and Things
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                    Finally, public speaking, like other forms of communication, is symbolic.  Words
                    are verbal symbols that we use to describe persons, places, and things. Gestures,
                    too, can be symbols, as is the case when we wave our hand to signal good-bye or
                    shake our fi st at someone to signal that we are angry. But they are nonverbal.
                      Although we deal with the symbolic nature of public speaking at length in
                    Chapters 10 and 11, we mention it here because you need to understand that
                    the meaning you attach to the verbal and nonverbal symbols you use to ex-
                    press yourself may not correspond to the meaning others attach to them. What’s
                    more, this may be the case even when you think you share a common language.
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