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Speaking of . . .


                  Thumbs Up, Thumbs Down

                  Here’s a list of activities that some people enjoy. All are guar-    Driving a race car or motorcycle at speed on an
                  anteed to provide the participant with an adrenaline rush.   oval track
                  And all are clearly more risky than presenting a speech in
                                                                     Holding a venomous snake
                  public. Read the list and check (thumbs up) all items you
                  would enjoy more than giving a speech to an assembly of     Climbing a 100-foot rock face
                  50 to 100 students on your campus. Then share your re-
                                                                     Jumping off a 30-foot bridge into a river or lake
                  sponses with others in your class (including how these ac-
                  tivities make you feel physically and mentally) and discuss     Racing a mountain bike downhill
                  the degree to which these feelings are logical or illogical.
                                                                    Downhill skiing
                                                                     Rappelling from a helicopter
                         Riding the world’s tallest ferris wheel
                                                                     Whitewater rafting or kayaking
                         Riding the world’s fastest roller coaster
                                                                    Auditioning for Jeopardy
                        Hang gliding                                Auditioning for American Idol
                        Paragliding                                  Singing a solo in your campus choir
                        Skydiving                                    Driving a bobsled
                        Scuba diving                                 Observing sharks from an underwater shark cage









                                        Negative or Insuffi cient Experience

                                        Our prior experiences with any task infl uence how we approach and com-
                                        plete our present task. If our past experiences with public speaking proved both
                                        successful and personally rewarding, chances are we look forward to our speak-
                                        ing assignments in this class. But if our prior experiences with public speak-
                                        ing were unpleasant, we may harbor some doubt about our ability to succeed.
                                        Finally, if we have had little or no opportunity to speak in public, we may
                                        be mildly or even considerably anxious about speaking before a teacher and
                                        peers.
                                          The fact that your past efforts as a speaker were unrewarding, or even un-
                                        pleasant, need not mean that your efforts in this class will prove likewise. The
                                        past need not dictate your future, assuming you are serious about becoming an
                                        effective speaker. Be realistic about your previous experience. You didn’t learn to
                                        read and write overnight. Chances are you received a few psychological bumps
                                        and bruises in the process. You cannot expect to be an overnight speaking sen-
                                        sation either. It takes commitment and effort. Thus, the fact that your previous ex-
                                        perience with speaking was unpleasant does not mean that you cannot become
                                        an effective speaker by the end of this class.
                                          By the same token, the fact that you think you have had little experience with
                                        the skills necessary for effective public speaking shouldn’t make you overly anx-
                                        ious. Just as running is an extension of walking, public speaking is an extension
                                        and refi nement of the communication skills you put to use daily. Through your
                                        class and this book, you can learn to successfully extend your everyday commu-
                  60                    nication skills to the task of speaking in public.
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