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                                   businesslike relationship.  Patterson found that group members making collective
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                                   (group) decisions sit closer together and in more of a circle than when making indi-
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                                   vidual judgments.  Stacks and Burgoon discovered that closer distances (18 inches)
                                   make  group  members more persuasive  and  credible  than  distances  of  36 or
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                                      What is a comfortable distance varies from one individual or one culture to
                                   another. In South America, southern and eastern Europe, and Arab countries, people
                                   prefer to stand close, whereas in northern Europe, North America, and Japan, people
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                                   prefer more space.  In fact, members of Arabic cultures feel reassured when they
                                   stand close enough to be able to smell their conversational partners. Westerners, how-
                                   ever, are usually uncomfortable with such close contact and tend to back away, caus-
                                   ing mixed interpretations of each other’s intentions.
                                      In small groups, individuals usually try to place themselves at a comfortable con-
                                   versational distance according to the norms of their own cultures. Naturally, this can
                                   cause problems if the participants are members of cultures with divergent norms
                                   about appropriate distance; they may interpret unexpected behavior of others as rude-
                                   ness or aggressiveness. One of us had a friend from Alabama who kept moving closer
                                   to her co-workers in Ohio, who kept backing away. Finally, they began to joke about
                                   her “invasion of their personal space,” and both she and her co-workers learned some-
                                   thing about their own co-cultural rules.
                                      Females tend to sit closer than males and tolerate crowding better. People of the
                                   same age and the same social status sit closer together than people of different ages and
                                   statuses. The better acquainted people are, the closer they tend to sit. Thus, members of
                                   a long-standing group characterized by high interpersonal trust would be comfortable
                                   sitting close together in a small room, but people just beginning to form into a group
                                   would need more space. Even so, humans are highly adaptable, so when a room or other
                                   constraint violates our preferred distances, we adjust, at least for a short time.
                                      A member’s status affects how others react to violations of space norms.  Burgoon
                                   et al. found, for instance, that if low-status group members violated the group’s norm
                                   regarding space, other members saw them as less persuasive, sociable, and attractive.
                                   In contrast, high-status members enhanced their status by moving closer than the
                                   group norm specified, and even more if they moved farther away.  Thus, it is gener-
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                                   ally advisable for you to follow group space norms rather than violate them, but if you
                                   are a high-status group member, you may have some leeway.
                                      Leadership emergence in a group is related to space. Dominant people and desig-
                                   nated leaders usually choose central positions in the group, such as at the head of a
                                   rectangular table or across from as many others as possible. Other members frequently
                                   avoid sitting next to a designated leader so the arrangement looks like a leader sitting
                                   facing a horseshoe.  This reinforces the leader’s position, allows the leader a compre-
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                                   hensive view of the group, and facilitates the leader’s coordination and control.
                                      People sitting across from each other speak more often to each other than people
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                                   sitting side by side.  However, when a group has a dominating leader, “sidebar” con-
                                   versations tend to break out between people sitting next to each other. Thus, we can
                                   conclude that conversation normally flows across the circle, and leaders should sit
                                   where they can maintain eye contact with as many group members as possible.









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