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                        searching for diverse opinions, which is why Marina supported Bill when he
                        suggested putting one or two people on the bylaws committee who were most
                        vocal about limiting the power of the minister. Their norm was one of open
                        discussion and consensus.
                       6.  Communication flows freely in all directions. There is a balanced distribution
                        of remarks made to the group as a whole and to individual members. Side-bar
                        conversations between members are minimal during group discussion and
                        members feel safe to talk to each other outside of meetings. Members build
                        on each other’s comments rather than ignore or continually disconfirm
                        comments.
                       7.  Procedures are efficient and members contribute to developing them. Marina,
                        for instance, had experience with focus groups, and she offered to organize
                        some during a congregational meeting so that the board could learn how the
                        congregation thought things were going. Furthermore, when procedures
                        needed to be changed, the church board decided together how to do that.
                        When the board reduced its meetings to every other week, Norm questioned
                        this procedure by noting the problems it created (“Things really pile up in two
                        weeks . . .”) and requested others’ opinions: “Does anyone else feel bothered by
                        this or is it just me?” The board discussed the change together before returning
                        to weekly meetings.
                        A group’s outputs are the results or products of the group’s inputs and through-  Outputs
                     put processes, including the tangible work accomplished (such as written reports,   Anything that is
                     items built, and policies developed), changes in the members (such as increases in   produced by a
                     commitment and increased self-confidence), the group’s effect on its environment,   system, such as a
                     and changes in the group’s procedures. The church board’s most obvious tangible   tangible product or a
                     output to its environment was the formation of a church now serving many people in   change in the
                     southwest Missouri. Within the group, though, strong bonds of affection, cohesiveness,   system; in a small
                     and pride at a job well done are examples of intangible outputs that developed. In one   group, includes such
                     meeting, after the group had been together for over a year, members articulated their   things as reports,
                     feelings:                                                            resolutions, changes
                                                                                          in cohesiveness, and
                     Don: As much as we complain about how much work we have to do, look at our   attitude changes in
                     finances! We have nearly half a year’s salary in the minister’s fund.  members.
                     Bill: I know. At times when I’m swamped and feel like giving up, I think about what
                     we’ve created and I’m energized again.
                     Marina: When I get discouraged about all that we haven’t done and all the things
                     that have fallen through the cracks, I think about how enthusiastic the congregation
                     is and how wonderful you all are, and I’m overcome with gratitude!
                     Gary: Speaking of gratitude, I haven’t told you all how hesitant I was to be part of
                     this group at first. You all have a lot more education than I do, and I didn’t feel like I
                     could express myself as well. But this has been one of the best experiences of my life,
                     and I’m grateful for your encouragement and support.











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