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                      personally relevant activities, such as facing a needless inhibiting
                      fear. You stick with a stressful job that you want to ditch. You feel
                      timid, and you promise yourself that you’ll take an assertiveness
                      class someday. Instead of engaging in self-improvement activities,
                      you watch TV and read tabloid magazines.
                          Because self-development activities are just about you, and
                      because they are open-ended with an indefinite start date, this may
                      not seem like procrastination. However, it meets the definition.
                      The following chart is a classic framework for identifying your top
                      self-development priority. The process involves defining your most
                      pressing and important self-development goal or priority and other
                      activities that are worth pursuing. Engaging in activities that are
                      not important and nonpressing before all the activities above them
                      are done may waste your time and resources. If you emphasize
                      not important and nonpressing activities over your number one
                      priority, you’re procrastinating by using the bottom-drawer activi-
                      ties as diversions. For example, if you face a health risk and you
                      read Hollywood scandal magazines in lieu of taking steps to stop
                      smoking, you need to think about what you’re doing. The follow-
                      ing chart is an example.

                       ACTION       Important         Useful        Not Important

                       Pressing     Quitting smoking   Dealing with   Neighbor
                                    to reduce high risk   snake phobia,   pushing you to
                                    for emphysema     as garter     join local poker
                                    and cancer.       snake spotted   club for social
                                                      in park.      purposes. Nice to
                                                                    do, but far from
                                                                    top of list.
                       Nonpressing  Dealing with fear   Organize    Keeping up
                                    of flying. No trips   computer files   with news about
                                    currently planned   to access    Hollywood
                                    that require flying.  related data.  scandals



                          Now it’s your turn to define what are the most pressing and
                      important things for you to do.
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