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8    End Procrastination Now!

                    ACTION        Important      Useful          Not Important

                    Pressing



                    Nonpressing






                  Omissions. What you omit doing may be a prime area of personal
                  procrastination. Dick was retired and spent a great deal of his time
                  complaining. He complained about his woman friend and how
                  her ongoing misery and physical complaints affected his mood.
                  He complained about his breakfast group, whom he saw as the
                  cold blanket squad who complained about their aches and pains
                  and the importance of maintaining the status quo. He complained
                  about lost opportunities and the hassles of life. What did these
                  complaints have in common? They were all diversions.
                      Dick’s pressing and important and nonpressing and not im-
                  portant self-development chart helped him isolate several areas of
                  procrastination. First and foremost, he wanted to learn how to do
                  teleconferencing on his computer so that he could keep in direct
                  contact with his children and grandchildren. He wanted to visit
                  art centers, travel, and study politics. His complaints covered up
                  what he did with his time, which was mostly sleeping during the
                  daytime and watching television at night. Once we established his
                  priorities and identified the futility of complaining, then Dick
                  started to work on his personal development challenges, which
                  were no longer mysterious.

                  Simple Procrastination

                  Simple procrastination is a default procrastination style in which
                  you resist and recoil from any uncomplicated activity that you find
                  mildly inconvenient or unpleasant. This may start with a momen-
                  tary hesitation that, unless it is quickly overridden by a productive
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