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56   End Procrastination Now!

                      Without using the term procrastination, von Clausewitz de-
                  scribed how you can make a simple process seem complicated and
                  unimaginably difficult. This procrastination process cannot be ad-
                  dressed theoretically. You can develop a habit of advancing as a way
                  to habituate to uncertainties, discomfort, and the unexpected.
                      Atlanta, Georgia, artist and psychotherapist Edward Garcia
                  uses an intellectual and emotional view of complexity that partially
                  explains why change can prove surprisingly challenging. When
                  two views clash, the resolution may lean in the direction of avoid-
                  ance. Figure 3.1 describes a simple-easy conflict.
                      Let’s say that your goal is to register for a strategic planning
                  course on how to plan major projects. When you have a mental
                  and emotional consistency in favor of executing the plan, you are
                  likely to pursue it. Procrastination is not likely to be an issue. But
                  what if there is an inconsistency? You want to register, but you
                  routinely find reasons to put it off. Does that mean that you don’t
                  want to sharpen your strategic planning skills?
                      Although you’d like to gain the benefits, you believe that learn-
                  ing these skills will feel uncomfortable, you worry that others will
                  know more than you do, and you feel apprehensive when you think
                  that you could make a mistake and look foolish. So, you promise



                                           FiGure 3.1
                                    The Simple-Easy Conflict


                           Simple
                                                                  Easy









                          Complex
                                                                 Difficult
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