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                                          table 3.1 (continued)
                       PURRRRS            Choices Made and Actions Taken

                       Respond by putting   In this phase, you face additional Y choices. Do
                       your plan into action  you plan, organize, and start and then behavior-
                                          ally procrastinate to give the horse the reins? Do
                                          you tough it out when the going gets rough by
                                          moving forward with the plan?

                       Review and revise:   Few plans are so great that they are beyond im-
                       make adjustments to   provement. There will be times where reflective
                       improve the plan and   experiences provoke new insights and suggest a
                       the results. When   better path. You may discover a stumbling block
                       warranted, try an-  that you had not seen before. The next Y decision
                       other way.         may involve resting on your laurels (the horse’s
                                          way) or trying a different way—the rider’s choice.

                       Stabilize: persist and   In a world in which most people tend to look for
                       overlearn coping   easy ways, the idea of repeated practice may lack
                       skills until they are   appeal. But there is no easy way to unravel and
                       automatic.         halt procrastination other than to keep working at
                                          building tolerance for discomfort and the neces-
                                          sary follow-through competencies that can give
                                          you an edge in a world in which procrastination is
                                          common. This represents another Y choice: to
                                          apply what you know to other areas where pro-
                                          crastination threatens your productive interests.
                                          Keep practicing until you have overlearned coun-
                                          ter-procrastination principles and pro-efficiency
                                          actions. Then, keep practicing.





                      •   Talk to yourself as though you were your own critic or a person
                          who can calmly and caringly reframe the situation. An honest
                          reframing may include this perspective: “I don’t want to, but
                          I had better act responsibly if I want to avoid a last-minute
                          rush and risk a negative performance review.” Sometimes
                          telling yourself that following through is the responsible
                          thing to do can cause a radical shift in perception from
                          avoidance to productive actions.
                      •   Examine where you feel the discomfort. Is it in your shoulders?
                          Is it in your stomach? Does stress give you a headache? Does
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