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Rivals



               flesh. It’s not surprising that almost nobody suggested that Spitzer
               deserved any mercy, either, when he was caught patronizing expensive
               prostitutes. Within days of this revelation, he was forced to resign.
                  And if you actually need the abilities
               of a former rival and want to hang on to
               the person, do not be stupid. Give him       FEW
               respect.                                     ORGANIZATIONS
                  I always thought it was a good idea,      CHOOSE A RANCH
               for example, when I had to meet with a       HOUSE FOR THEIR
               rival who lost, to go to his office the first  HEADQUARTERS.
               few times. And then, if he was coming        THE
               to see me, I would come out of my office      HEADQUARTERS
               to greet him.                                ARE ALL IN TALL
                  Ameliorating the humiliation by any       BUILDINGS SO
               means you can is extraordinarily             THAT FORMER
               important. You have to be careful            RIVALS CAN BE
               socially. Don’t allow your spouse to lord    THROWN OFF THE
               it over the rival’s spouse.                  ROOF.
                  No matter how careful you are, you’ll
               have mixed success because most of
               your rivals really believe that they deserved the job and that you didn’t.
               Some people will tell you straight out, “I don’t know how you beat me.”
               Other people will say all the right things, but their behavior is undermin-
               ing or difficult. Or they can’t get rid of their anger or disappointment.
               There is no point in discussing it with them. It’s not your problem. They
               just have to go.
                  On the other hand, one of the most disappointed people I’ve ever
               beaten in a race turned out to be one of my best employees. Let’s call him
               Clark. For the longest time, Clark was the golden boy at this company
               where I worked.
                  Everyone expected him to get the brass ring and run a major division.
               He was smart, articulate, knew the numbers. Some thought his people



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