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An Assault against Anxiety
                   Tim was the head of a lighting crew for a local television news sta-
                   tion in Salt Lake City, Utah. After 4 years of working on the crew
                   and finally becoming the chief lighting designer, he figured he
                   had paid his dues and was ready to move to Los Angeles to get a
                   job in the film industry.
                       With no binding family ties or other obligations, he packed
                   up his pickup truck and headed for Hollywood. It was 4 months
                   before he landed his first interview, a meeting with the director
                   of photography for a network movie-of-the-week. He was willing
                   to start at the bottom, but unfortunately, the interview failed to
                   yield the chance to do even that.
                       “It was like an interrogation,” he protested when he called me.
                   “I never expected to have to tell my life story just to get a job on a
                   movie! Their questions were impossible. I’m not a brain surgeon.”
                       “I don’t know what happened,” he reflected. “When they asked
                   those questions about my weaknesses and my failures, my mouth
                   went dry, and it was like my jaw couldn’t move. I just sat there and
                   totally froze! They must have thought I was a moron! I walked out
                   of there shaking inside, feeling like I was a total idiot. There’s no way
                   I’m ever going to go through anything like that again!”
                       You’re certainly not alone if you have some negative feelings
                   about interviewing. Most people consider interviews to be some-
                   where between mildly unpleasant and absolutely terrifying. This
                   book will give you specific strategies for conquering that anxiety
                   and quieting those negative voices.


                              The Most Common Interview Fears

                   The 11 most common fears that people have voiced to me about
                   interviewing are contained in the following checklist. Check the
                   box next to any of these fears you have right now. Be sure to use
                   a pencil! You’re going to go back over this list at the end of read-
                   ing this book, and I can safely predict that many of the fears you
                   have now will most certainly have been “erased” by then.

                         I fear they will ask me a question I don’t know the answer to.
                           Chapters 2 through 5, plus the sample interviews at the
                           end of the book, will leave you with no doubt about how
                           to strategically answer any of the four types of interview
                           questions.


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