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106   Nathalie van Meurs and Helen Spencer-Oatey


                          sensitivities, and perceived sociality rights and obligations that they each hold.
                          Spencer-Oatey (2000: 29–30) also proposes that people may have different
                          orientations towards positive rapport:
                          1. Rapport-enhancement orientation: a desire to strengthen or enhance har-
                             monious relations between interlocutors;
                          2. Rapport-maintenance orientation: a desire to maintain or protect harmoni-
                             ous relations between the interlocutors;
                          3. Rapport-neglect orientation: a lack of concern or interest in the quality of re-
                             lations between the interlocutors (perhaps because of a focus on self);
                          4. Rapport-challenge orientation: a desire to challenge or impair harmonious
                             relations between the interlocutors
                             She points out that people’s motives for holding any of these orientations
                          could be various.


                          3.5.   A synthesized summary
                          Building on the theorizing of Thomas (1976), Brown and Levinson (1987),
                          Spencer-Oatey (2000), along with Friedman, Chi and Liu’s (2006) and van
                          Meurs’ (2003) findings, it seems that the motivations underlying these conflict-
                          handling tactics can be multiple, and can include the following (interrelated)
                          concerns:

                          –  Cost–benefit considerations (the impact of the handling of the conflict on the
                             instrumental concerns of self and/or other)
                          –  Rapport considerations (the impact of the handling of the conflict on the
                             smoothness/harmony between the parties)
                          –  Relational considerations (the impact of the handling of the conflict on the
                             degree of distance–closeness and equality–inequality between the parties)
                          –  Effectiveness considerations (the impact of the handling of the conflict on
                             the degree of concern for clarity, control, and inconvenience between par-
                             ties)
                          Thomas’ five conflict-handling orientations or styles cannot be mapped in a
                          straightforward manner onto these underlying concerns, and thus cannot be ex-
                          plained simply in terms of concern for self versus concern for other, as Tho-
                          mas’s (1976) and Rahim’s (1983, 1992) frameworks suggest. Similarly, styles
                          and tactics do not have a one-to-one relationship. Let us take avoidance as an
                          example. If I avoid handling a conflict, it could be that I want to withdraw from
                          the problem (as indicated by Thomas’ grid), but there could also be several
                          other possibilities. It could be that I want to maintain or build rapport with the
                          other person; it could be that I want to show respect for the superordinate status
                          of the other person; or it could be that my long-term goal is to dominate my op-
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