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The Power to



                            Change Anything










                   f you’re like most people, you face several influence chal-
                   lenges that have you stumped. For instance, at work you’re
               Ifighting an uphill battle. You’ve given your heart and soul
               to a quality-improvement program, but your best efforts to make
               quality part of the everyday culture have yielded no improve-
               ments whatsoever. None.
                   At the personal level, you’re fighting a weight problem that
               has gone on for years. Actually you have a metabolism problem.
               It turns out your body doesn’t burn 6,000 calories a day. Talk
               about bad luck.
                   At the family level, your oldest son just turned 13, and he
               hangs out with a pretty frightening-looking crowd that appears
               to have lost all interest in civility, decency, and hair care. You’ve
               tried reasoning and bribing and even a well-timed threat, but
               when you talk to him, there’s no one home. It’s as if the day
               he turned 13 your ability to influence him expired.
                   At the community level, you have a neighbor who allows
               three vicious, three-foot-tall pit bulls to wander his backyard
               with impunity. The problem is his four-foot fence. It’s just a
               matter of time until the dogs break out and run wild, but the
               local animal control people won’t do a thing about it. Accord-
               ing to them, someone has to suffer before they can take action.
               To cap the whole thing off, your region of the country is going
               through a five-year drought because apparently the world is
               heating up like a meatball in a microwave.
                   And you can’t fix any of this.




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