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76   It’s Not a Glass Ceiling, It’s a Sticky Floor



           ____  Appear to lack self-confidence because you’re always
                 working so hard?


           ____  Seem overly critical of others or hard on your team?


           ____  Can seem defensive and hurt in the face of constructive
                 criticism?


           ____  Are a micro-manager?


           ____  Seem too risk-averse, or too reluctant to try new things or
                 raise your visibility?


           ____  Don’t seem responsive to others’ priorities or sense of
                 urgency on certain projects?


              If you checked off any of these critiques then you have to ask
           yourself, what impact are you having on your organization and is it
           productive or useful for others? Is your perfectionism keeping you
           from focusing on the right things?



           Solutions for the Perfectionist

           If perfection, or micromanaging, is your sticky floor, you probably
           need to work on letting go.
              Think in terms of perfecting your ability to bring out the best in
           your team and get the job done through them (instead of in spite of
           them, which might be how you often feel). Learn to let them do
           things on their own. And work on accepting that while others will
           never do things quite the same way you would, they can still do per-
           fectly fine work. Remember the concept of “good enough” and apply
           it whenever you can!
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