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                Here are some more ideas for you to consider if you need help
            getting unstuck from this particular sticky floor:


              1. Think about why you’re a perfectionist. Where does the
                  trait come from? What do you get from being a
                  perfectionist and what does it cost you?

              2. Check your standards of performance against your goals.
                  When you create a new presentation or report, or write a
                  memo or a team e-mail, before you do that third (or fourth
                  or fifth) revision, ask yourself what you’re trying to
                  accomplish with it and what others have said they need
                  from it. Then ask yourself, is this good enough to get the
                  job done? If it is, let it go and move on (or go home!).

              3. Seek feedback and use it to calibrate your own standards.
                  That’s your responsibility whenever you start something
                  new. Talk to your internal or external customers and ask
                  what their priorities and expectations are. What are the
                  most critical success factors for them? What part of the
                  project is most important to them? Use that feedback to
                  guide the work rather than your exacting, but arbitrary
                  standards.

              4. Have a communication strategy. Once you have decided on
                  standards and priorities for a given situation, communicate
                  them to your team and to other key stakeholders and solicit
                  their feedback as the project moves along. Be sure everyone
                  understands your expectations and feels that they can be
                  successful using them as operational guidelines.

              5. Seek out peers. Identify those who are acknowledged in your
                  organization as great leaders. Watch what they do and use
                  that as a guide to your performance in similar situations.
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