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Risk and luck are doppelgangers.

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                This is not an easy problem to solve. The difficulty in identifying what is
                luck, what is skill, and what is risk is one of the biggest problems we face
                when trying to learn about the best way to manage money.


                But two things can point you in a better direction.





                  Be careful who you praise and admire. Be careful who you look down
                                        upon and wish to avoid becoming.





                Or, just be careful when assuming that 100% of outcomes can be attributed
                to effort and decisions. After my son was born, I wrote him a letter that
                said, in part:





                Some people are born into families that encourage education; others are
                against it. Some are born into flourishing economies encouraging of

                entrepreneurship; others are born into war and destitution. I want you to be
                successful, and I want you to earn it. But realize that not all success is due
                to hard work, and not all poverty is due to laziness. Keep this in mind when
                judging people, including yourself.





                 Therefore, focus less on specific individuals and case studies and more
                                                  on broad patterns.





                Studying a specific person can be dangerous because we tend to study
                extreme examples—the billionaires, the CEOs, or the massive failures that
                dominate the news—and extreme examples are often the least applicable to
                other situations, given their complexity. The more extreme the outcome, the
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