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THE SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE                                                      Brought to you by FlyHeart

             It's also the foundation for the Daily Public Victory.    It's the source of intrinsic security you need to
       sharpen the saw in the social/emotional  dimension.  It  gives  you  the personal strength to focus on
       your Circle of Influence in interdependent situations -- to look  at others through the Abundance
       Mentality paradigm, to genuinely value their differences and to be happy for their success.    It gives
       you the foundation to work for genuine understanding and for synergetic win-win solutions, to practice
       Habits 4, 5, and 6 in an interdependent reality.

       The Upward Spiral

             Renewal is the principle -- and the process -- that empowers us to move on an upward spiral of
       growth and change, of continuous improvement.
             To make meaningful and consistent progress along that spiral, we need to consider one other aspect
       of renewal as it applies to the unique human endowment that directs this upward movement -- our
       conscience.    In the words of Madame de Sta'l, "The voice of conscience is so delicate that it is easy to
       stifle it: but it is also so clear that it is impossible to mistake it."
             Conscience is the endowment that senses our congruence or disparity with correct principles and
       lifts us toward them -- when it's in shape
             Just as the education of nerve and sinew is vital to the excellent athlete and education of the mind is
       vital to the scholar, education of the conscience is vital to the truly proactive, highly effective person.
       Training and educating the conscience, however, requires even greater concentration, more balanced
       discipline, more consistently honest living.    It requires regular feasting on inspiring literature, thinking
       noble thoughts and, above all, living in harmony with its still small voice
             Just as junk food and lack of exercise can ruin an athlete's condition, those things that are obscene,
       crude, or pornographic can breed an inner darkness that numbs our higher sensibilities and substitutes
       the social conscience of "Will I be found out?" for the natural or divine conscience of "What is right and
       wrong?"
             In the words of Dag Hammarskjold,
             You cannot play with the animal in you without becoming wholly animal, play with falsehood
       without forfeiting your right to truth, play with cruelty without losing your sensitivity of mind.    He
       who wants to keep his garden tidy doesn't reserve a plot for weeds.
             Once we are self-aware, we must choose purposes and principles to live by; otherwise the vacuum
       will be filled, and we will lose our self-awareness and become like groveling animals who live primarily
       for survival and propagation.    People who exist on that level aren't living; they are "being lived." They
       are reacting, unaware of the unique endowments that lie dormant and undeveloped within.
             And there is no shortcut in developing them. The Law of the Harvest governs; we will always reap
       what we sow -- no more, no less.    The law of justice is immutable, and the closer we align ourselves
       with correct principles, the better our judgment will be about how the world operates and the more
       accurate our paradigms -- our maps of the territory -- will be.
             I believe that as we grow and develop on this upward spiral, we must show diligence in the process
       of renewal by educating and obeying our conscience.    An increasingly educated conscience will propel
       us along the path of personal freedom, security, wisdom, and power.
             Moving along the upward spiral requires us to learn, commit, and do on increasingly higher planes.
       We deceive ourselves if we think that any one of these is sufficient.    To keep progressing, we must
       learn, commit, and do -- learn, commit, and do -- and learn, commit, and do again.

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