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                          Do You Know Where You Belong?





                                                   1992


                              hen I look at people who have done a good job in manag-
                       Wing their career—and I don’t just mean in terms of jobs
                       and money and title, but in terms of achievement and satisfac-
                       tion and contribution—these are people who build a network.
                       This is a modern term. We didn’t speak of it 10 years ago. Back
                       then, we said, “These are people who keep in touch.” Today, they
                       build a network.
                          In a way, they have learned how to be considerate. And, be-
                       lieve me, I don’t think people are born considerate. There are
                       some people who are born more polite than others. But consid-
                       erate? No. Considerate is doing a few elementary things.
                          The first is to have a tickler file in which you have enough
                       information about the people you work with to be considerate.
                       To call up and say, “Mary this is your wedding anniversary—20
                       years. Isn’t it wonderful? Congratulations.” And you know, those
                       of us who have been married a long time have learned that the
                       husband had better not forget the wedding anniversary. But no
                       husband remembers it after 35 years, so we have it in our calen-
                       dar. We have a tickler file. And one learns that you keep a tickler
                       file with the names of the children of the people you work with,
                       and their birthdays, and their wedding anniversaries. And that’s
                       being considerate. That’s showing respect.



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