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so slow, bureaucratic, and
          Words should be used as    unconcerned. People and
          tools of communication     departments went down
          and not as a substitute    before they got any action.”
          for action.                   Consider this: In our so-
                   —Anonymous        ciety, inaction equates to
                                     guilt and can often lead to
                                     criminal liability. If you
        know of a crime and don’t report it, you can be charged as
        an accomplice. If you’re a corporate leader and permit sex-
        ual harassment, the law holds that you are condoning such
        behavior. If you’re a leader of a political party serving in
        Congress or the White House and fail to bring appropri-
        ate action against a colleague for misconduct, people ex-
        pect your resignation or will demand your impeachment.
           No action implies consent. Message sent: We don’t care.


            Apologize: Do It Wrong and You’ll Be Sorry

        Why won’t the latest celebrity flap go away? Situations call-
        ing for a public apology come and go about once a month.
        Some rock star, movie actor, athlete, or politician gets
        caught shoplifting, driving while drunk, doing drugs, hav-
        ing an affair, uttering prejudicial slurs over an open mic,
        or taking a bribe, and the public becomes outraged about
        the duplicity. The public persona and principles preached
        don’t match the private behavior.
           What further enrages us about such situations is that typ-
        ically the celebrity involved first takes the stance: “It’s none
        of your business.” When that line doesn’t work, he or she
        tries to make excuses, “I was drunk/stoned/conned/didn’t
        know that blah, blah, blah . . .”—fill in the blanks. When
        those excuses don’t calm the waters, they finally come out
        with a belated apology. Life goes back to normal. We once


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