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                                            A Few Myths About Managing Your Time
                               al—are at the core of Type A behavior.
                                   A good many of the satellite tendencies of a Type A person-
                               ality have to do with time. Type A people set unreasonable  19
                               schedules—for themselves and for others. They establish
                               impossible or inappropriate goals. They cram everything into
                               the last minute. They have little time for friends. And, interest-
                               ingly, even though they seem in constant, frantic activity, they
                               rarely seem to get anything done. Type A’s boast of their fren-
                               zied carryings-on, seek out your sympathy, or try to impose
                               their style on you. They’re prophets of zoom.
                                   On the other hand, there are people who are virtually
                               reverse, mirror images of a Type A. Let’s call them Type M.
                               They’re quiet but commanding achievers. Their goals are rea-
                               sonable, their schedules balanced, their dispositions even-tem-
                               pered. Colleagues and friends admire them for getting things
                               done. And they seem to suffer less from the recurring ills that

                                           Type A                         Type M
                                Unreasonable schedules         Reasonable schedules
                                Unreasonable goals             Reasonable goals
                                Cramming behavior              Long-range planning
                                Aggressive, hostile            Relaxed, understanding
                                Mostly acquaintances           True friends
                                Frequently ill                 Generally healthy
                                Frantic activity               Steady achievement
                                Rarely get things done         Get things done

                               plague the classic Type A, as shown below:
                                   The bottom line: you should strive to replace as many Type
                               A traits as you can with Type M ones. It’s the reasonable—and
                               healthy—thing to do.


                               Myth 2: Time Management Extinguishes
                               Spontaneity and Joy
                               The preceding discussion should serve to convince you of the
                               hollowness of this myth. Time-managed people set aside whole
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