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USE YOUR MEMORY
Negative Mental Set
There is a growing and informal international organisation, which
I choose to name the 'I've Got an Increasingly Bad Memory
Club'. How often do you hear people in animated and enthusiastic
conversation saying things like, 'You know, my memory's not
nearly as good as it used to be when I was younger; I'm constantly
forgetting things.' To which there is an equally enthusiastic reply:
'Yes, I know exactly what you mean; the same thing's happening to
me.. . .' And off they dodder, arms draped around each other's
shoulders, down the hill to mental oblivion. And such conversa-
tions often take place between thirty-year-olds!
This negative, dangerous, incorrect mental set is based on lack of
proper training, and this book is designed to correct it.
Consider the younger supermemoriser to whom most people
romantically refer. If you want to check for yourself, go back to any
school at the end of a day, walk into a classroom of a group of five -
to seven-year-old children after they have gone home and ask the
teacher what has been left in the classroom (i.e., forgotten). You
will find the following items: watches, pencils, pens, sweets,
money, jackets, physical education equipment, books, coats,
glasses, erasers, toys, etc.
The only real difference between the middle-aged executive
who has forgotten to phone someone he was supposed to phone
and who has left his briefcase at the office, and the seven-year-old
child who realises on returning home that he's left at school his
watch, his pocket-money and his homework is that the seven-
year-old does not collapse into depression, clutching his head and
exclaiming, 'Oh, Christ, I'm seven years old and my memory's
going!'
Ask yourself, 'What is the number of things I actually remem-
ber each day?' Most people estimate somewhere between 100 and
10,000. The answer is in fact in the multiple billions. The human
memory is so excellent and runs so smoothly that most people
don't even realise that every word they speak and every word they
listen to are instantaneously produced for consideration, recalled,
recognised precisely and placed in their appropriate context. Nor
do they realise that every moment, every perception, every
thought, everything that they do throughout the entire day and
throughout their lives is a function of their memories. In fact, its
ongoing accuracy is almost perfect. The few odd things that we do
forget are like odd specks on a gigantic ocean. Ironically, the
reason why we notice so dramatically the errors that we make is
that they are so rare.
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