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26     What Type of Leader Are You?




        tion, and someone lying. Nines tend to avoid direct anger and con-
        flict, preferring a feeling of rapport and comfort with others. Their
        anger, which is so deeply buried that it has been called the “anger
        that went to sleep,” surfaces when they feel either ignored or
        forced to do something, in which case their anger may turn into
        passive-aggressive behavior. Ones’ anger is often manifested as fre-
        quent irritations followed by flares of resentment. Ones also tend
        toward self-criticism, which is anger turned inward. Enneagram
        Style Nine is the core style of the three Body Center styles, with
        Styles Eight and One being variations of Enneagram Style Nine.


        Which center of intelligence and which style within it most
        describes you? As mentioned earlier, there are four Enneagram
        styles—in addition to your core style—that can influence your per-
        sonality. Your wings are the styles (numbers) on either side of your
        core style, and your stress and security points are the numbers or
        styles that have lines with arrows pointing either away from or
        toward your core style. A wing number and/or a stress or security
        point number may have been among the top four styles you listed.
        The information about wings and stress and security points that
        follows may further illuminate your core style and clarify the
        dynamics of the Enneagram system.


        Enneagram Style Wings
        As noted earlier, wings are the Enneagram styles on each side of
        your actual Enneagram style.
        These are secondary styles of   FIGURE 1.5 Enneagram Style Wings
        your core personality style,
        which means that you may also
        display some of the characteris-
        tics of these Enneagram styles.
        Wings do not fundamentally
        change your Enneagram style;
        they merely add additional
        qualities to your core personal-
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