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        The Six Competency Components
        of Strive for Self-Mastery

        Component 1: Demonstrating a
        Deep Level of Self-Awareness
        This means being aware of your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
        when they are occurring, rather than denying them or having a
        delayed reaction to them; appreciating your strengths and gaining
        insights from your mistakes; being sensitive to your impact on oth-
        ers; knowing when you are projecting your own thoughts and feel-
        ings onto other people, and taking responsibility for this; and having
        neither an overinflated nor an undervalued sense of self-worth.


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        Component 2: Responding to
        Feedback in Meaningful Ways
        This involves seeking feedback from multiple sources, intentionally
        including people who may have something negative to say; being
        equally receptive to positive and negative feedback; differentiating
        useful feedback from someone’s biased opinion; responding to
        feedback with a willingness to understand the information and take
        action when needed; being open to discussion of your shortcom-
        ings and to undergoing coaching; and listening to and checking
        with others before forming final judgments and taking action.


              Low                                                  High
              1             2             3             4             5

        Component 3: Being Self-Responsible
        and Self-Motivating
        This means taking full responsibility for your own thoughts, feel-
        ings, behavior, and performance; being forthcoming about your own
        deeper motivations; being able to realistically differentiate your own
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