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Emotion Is Your Enemy
                             I demanded the same emotional constraint if we came up on the  113
                          losing end. And most of all, I desired emotional control in their
                          performance before the final score was known, that is, during the
                          contest itself. I insisted on that same control and intensity during
                          practice—especially practice. On those occasions where I didn’t see
                          it in a player or the team, I would end the practice—or threaten to.
                          That was usually enough to get them back on track.
                             My teaching stressed that “losing your temper will get us out-
                          played because you’ll make unnecessary errors; your judgment will
                          be impaired.” I didn’t mind an occasional mistake unless it was
                          caused by loss of self-control.
                             Consequently, I never second-guessed myself when a decision
                          didn’t work out so long as I made it without emotion becoming in-
                          volved. It wasn’t a mistake if I used good judgment and the avail-
                          able information. It became an error, however, when the decision
                          was made because I lost control of my feelings, as I did back at
                          South Bend when I was threatened by a player’s father. That was a
                          very big error.
                             I worked hard to eliminate errors in my behavior as the years
                          progressed. The errors decreased only because of my strong belief
                          that consistency, steadiness, and dependability are necessary for
                          high-performance results and for Competitive Greatness. And
                          emotionalism destroys all of this.
                             A volatile leader is like a bottle of nitroglycerine: The slightest
                          knock and it blows up. Those around nitroglycerine or a tempera-
                          mental boss spend all their time carefully tiptoeing back and forth
                          rather than doing their jobs. It is not an environment, in my opin-
                          ion, conducive to a winning organization.
                             Strive to provide a leadership model that is dependable and re-
                          liable and productive in the area of emotions.
                             Here are some reminders you may consider adding to your own
                          playbook.
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