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                                  f you aren’t happy in your current job, you
                                  may be letting things slip a bit whether you
                                  are aware of it or not. The temptation to do
              Ithis is perfectly understandable and natu-
              ral. You may not even realize how much you’ve let slide. Perhaps
              you are less than ecstatic when you arrive at the office or are even
              downright cranky. Maybe you are showing up late on occasion, are
              calling in sick more often, or aren’t paying as much attention to
              your wardrobe or appearance. You may be letting paperwork pile
              up or allowing your e-mail in-box to become clogged with mes-
              sages. You may not be returning phone calls as promptly as you
              know you should. This is all pretty normal. It is hard to do our best
              when we aren’t doing work that we enjoy. In a way, you are sub-
              tly or—in some cases—not so subtly sabotaging your career. You
              just can’t be bothered, and it is probably
              starting to show. This situation can have
              a downward spiraling effect, not just on    It’s no good running
              your career but on your personal life as    a pig farm badly for
              well. If you come home exhausted and        thirty years while
              grouchy, your partner and friends may       saying, “Really I was
              have a hard time cheering you up. They      meant to be a ballet
              may eventually tire of your complaints      dancer.” By that time,
              and end the relationship or distance        pigs will be your style.
              themselves from you when you need
              their support the most. If you continue               —QUENTIN CRISP
              to do work and do it badly, then you end
              up either getting stuck in the same job
              or getting fired. Now, being fired may be exactly what you wanted
              at some level, but it may not be the best way of finding the work
              you love.
                 If you are single, you may not be too worried about getting the
              pink slip, but if you are supporting a family, being in this situation
              could present a serious financial problem. Best to avoid getting
              fired, as it is always easier to attract a new career when you already
              have one, even if it isn’t a job you want to keep. A job is often bet-
              ter than no job. Prospective employers can’t help but wonder why
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