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Need for security/safety.

Need to be busy/work.

19. Your colleagues don’t appreciate your point of view. You make a
statement and nobody seems to hear you or understand you.

Need to be heard/listened to/understood.

Need to be recognized/get attention.

Need to be appreciated/valued.

20. You always have to have the remote control.

Need to be in control/power.
21. You can’t stand it when your boss or colleague takes credit for
what you’ve done.

Need to be recognized/get credit/be noticed.

Need to be appreciated/acknowledged.

22. You get very frustrated and/or upset if you don’t get the
recognition you deserve at work.

Need to be recognized/noticed.

Need to be appreciated/acknowledged/valued.

23. You feel lonely and removed from people and lose the desire for
sex when you are not in a relationship.

Need to be touched/held.
Need to be loved/cherished.

24. You get furious, hurt, angry, or disappointed if you find out your
coworkers make plans without inviting you, even if you know you
can’t attend. You still want to be invited regardless.

Need to be included/liked.