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STEP 2: IDENTIFY YOUR PERSONAL REQUIREMENTS 45

39. You can’t sleep at night unless you’ve checked to make sure all the
doors are locked.

Need for safety/security.
40. You have a stockpile of canned goods and household supplies on
hand.

Need for luxury/comfort/abundance.

Need for security/safety.

41. You feel compelled to always do the right thing, no matter what.

Need for honesty/integrity.
Need for duty/responsibility/justice.

42. Although you hate to admit it, you don’t go on a second date
with a person who didn’t pick up the tab on the first date. You
much prefer being treated and feel that people can’t be all that
interested in you if they didn’t treat.

Need to be supported/cared for.
Need to be loved/cherished.

43. You love gossip. You can’t resist passing on a juicy tidbit.

Need to be recognized/get attention/be known.

Need to be included/accepted/liked.

Need to be heard/communicate/tell stories.
44. You naturally expect people to bring presents to your birthday
party and feel miffed if someone doesn’t bring one.

Need to be cared for/supported.

45. You would never eat at a restaurant where the service is lousy,
even though the food is superb.

Need to be cared for/attended to/supported.

Need for luxury/comfort.