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46. You need to know that your lover, partner, or spouse desires you.
It isn’t enough that the person says so. You want demonstrable
evidence before you are satisfied.

Need to be supported/cared for.
Need to be touched/caressed.

47. You tend to find yourself in messes or problem situations, but
fortunately, someone usually comes along to rescue you or help
you out.

Need to be saved/supported.
48. You often ask leading questions in order to get a compliment, such
as, “How do you like my dress/suit/hair?”

Need to be loved/cherished/desired/adored.

Need to be admired/recognized.

Need to be complimented/appreciated.

Need to be supported/encouraged.
49. You need a commitment before you can do your best work or
be your best self—whether that is a job contract or a marriage
contract.

Need for security/safety.

Need for clarity/certainty.

50. After a bad day, nothing makes you feel better than being held
tenderly.

Need to be touched/held.

Need to be supported/cared for.

Need to be loved/cherished/desired.

51. Life feels blah if you don’t have a cause to rally behind.
Need to be responsible/have a cause or mission.