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        very few of the areas that Geert thought should be discussed. Instead, he
        asked about some highly detailed facts pertaining to Geert’s experience
        in tool design, using English words that Geert did not know, and the rel-
        evance of the questioning escaped him. Those were things he could learn
        within a week once he worked there. After half an hour of painful misun-
        derstandings, the interviewer said, “Sorry—we need a fi rst-class man.”
        And Geert was out on the street.


        Assertiveness Versus Modesty


        Years later Geert was the interviewer, and he met with both Dutch and
        American applicants. Then he understood what had gone wrong in that
        earlier case. American applicants, to Dutch eyes, oversell themselves. Their
        curricula vitae are worded in superlatives, mentioning every degree, grade,
        award, and membership to demonstrate their outstanding qualities. Dur-
        ing the interview they try to behave assertively, promising things they
        are very unlikely to realize—such as learning the local language in a few
        months.
            Dutch applicants, in American eyes, undersell themselves. They write

        modest and usually short CVs, counting on the interviewer to find out how
        good they really are by asking. They expect an interest in their social and
        extracurricular activities during their studies. They are careful not to be
        seen as braggarts and not to make promises they are not absolutely sure
        they can fulfi ll.
            American interviewers know how to interpret American CVs and
        interviews, and they tend to discount the information provided. Dutch
        interviewers, accustomed to Dutch applicants, tend to upgrade the infor-
        mation. The scenario for cross-cultural misunderstanding is clear. To an

        uninitiated American inter viewer, an uninitiated Dutch applicant comes
        across as a sucker. To an uninitiated Dutch interviewer, an uninitiated
        American applicant comes across as a braggart.
            Dutch and American societies are reasonably similar on the dimen-
        sions of power distance and individualism as described in the two previous
        chapters, but they differ considerably on a third dimension, which opposes,
        among other things, the desirability of assertive behavior against the desir-
        ability of modest behavior. We will label it masculinity versus femininity.
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