Page 12 - Effective Communication Skills Mastery Bible 4 Books in 1 Boxset by Tuhovsky, Ian

Introduction

I t’s one of the most important abilities in life, but you

won’t really learn it at school. There are very few

teachers on this crucial subject, but everyone has to go

through the learning process and pass exams many times in

their lives. There are no TV programs about it, although it is

used by everyone, everywhere, all the time. The survival of a
species depends on its quality and the better animals or tribes

master it, the more dominant they become over others. During

a major part of most people’s lives, it’s automatic and not

something they are fully aware of.

Effective communication—exactly what makes human

beings dominant on this blue planet.

It is said that speech is silver, but silence is gold. Still, few

will argue about the great power of words, either spoken or

written.

In my personal experience, lack of communication skills is

exactly what ruins most people’s lives. If you don’t know how
to communicate properly, you are going to have problems,

both in your intimate and family relationships. You are going

to be ineffective in work and business situations. It’s going to

be troublesome on a daily basis managing employees or

getting what you want from your boss or your clients. Overall,
I’d say effective communication is like an engine oil that

makes your life run smoothly, getting you wherever you want

to be. There are very few areas in life in which you can

succeed in the long run without this crucial skill. Obviously,

there are also other factors influencing the quality of your