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If you want to make a change in how your sensory filters

operate, you can only do it by taking stimulants. By

intoxicating your brain, you make it perceive reality very

differently. You’ve probably had a chance to notice that after

drinking too many beers, the world appears to be quite

different (until the painful morning!).

The most important thing is you can easily change how the

“second group” of your filters (mental filters) operate. You can

change your way of referring to your past experiences. You

can change your expectations towards the future. You can
change your beliefs about the world that surrounds you and

about other people. You can even change your deeply rooted

values and your personal statement.

These adjustments cause the biggest and the most

profound changes in your emotions, habits and

communicational behaviors. They allow you to reach deep
down into your consciousness and truly transform yourself.

Instead of changing particular behaviors, you can start by

changing your beliefs. A lot of people in this world (maybe

even the majority) hold onto beliefs that not only don’t help

them, but simply hurt them and hold them back from real
happiness and fulfillment.

A different way of seeing the world means a completely

different life. Remember that you always have a pair of

“mental glasses” on your nose. These glasses can be black and
a source of unhappiness, but they can also be colorful, which

will make your life much more passionate and much easier.