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                                   members freely calling Amen, Go ahead, Preach to the minister; such responses would
                                   be less frequent in most white churches. Differences in black– white uses of the back-
                                   channel, as we discussed earlier (Chapter 2), can create misunderstandings and cause
                                   hurt feelings.
                                      In the United States, it is often difficult for someone from one co- culture to
                                     participate fully in a group dominated by members of a different co- culture. Many
                                   African Americans, including some of the most successful, say they must behave cau-
                                   tiously and carefully in groups of Caucasian Americans; they can never fully relax.
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                                   In many ways they have developed bicultural competencies— one set of behaviors for
                                   African American groups; another for primarily Caucasian groups. This balancing act
                                   can be exhausting, but many African Americans believe that if they do not conform to
                                   the communication rules of the dominant European American culture, they will pay
                                   a high price.
                                      Many African Americans and other people of color are accustomed to having
                                   their opinions marginalized. Trained facilitators for a series of recent public discus-
                                   sions about democracy were careful to make sure that opinions of all participants
                                   were heard respectfully.  Participants of color were more satisfied with these discus-
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                                   sions and were especially appreciative for the opportunity to speak and be heard. The
                                   researchers speculated that white participants took it for granted that they would be
                                   able to express their opinions freely and be heard, but participants of color were used
                                   to being marginalized, so this represented something unusual. In a small group
                                     discussion, such marginalization is harmful on many levels.


                                   Co- Cultural Differences Based on Sex
                                   You will never be able to escape one of the most important influences of culture: the
                                   effect of sex roles in a group. Masculine- feminine was one of five dimensions of cul-
               Gender              ture, discussed earlier, that affects small group communication. Gender refers to the
               Learned and         learned characteristics and psychological attributes of masculinity and femininity,
               culturally transmitted   whereas sex refers to biological characteristics. Reich and Wood found four central
               sex-  role behaviors of   themes in their review of research exploring feminine and masculine behavior in small
               an individual.      group interaction.  These themes do not represent absolute differences between men
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                                   and women but rather are matters of degree and will help us begin our discussion of
               Sex
                                   sex, gender, and small group communication.
               Biologically           First, men and women differ in expressive and instrumental behaviors. Expressive
               determined
               characteristics of   behaviors reflect feelings and relationships. For instance, before the meeting gets
               femaleness and      under way, Tanya may ask Charlie how he did on the calculus test he was worried
               maleness.           about. Instrumental behaviors function to accomplish the group’s task. Charlie may
                                   tell Tanya he’ll talk to her about it after the meeting, but first they need to talk about
                                   where they are on the group project.
                                      Second, a related difference is relationship versus task focus. Feminine expressive
                                   behaviors place an emphasis on relationships and are more likely to show that some-
                                   one cares and wants to help. One effective female leader we know touches base with
                                   members of her group between meetings, especially if there has been a disagreement.
                                   She fosters harmonious relationships in an effort to help the group run smoothly.









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