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                  sions become the bigger problem. You feel depressed. Rather than
                  addressing the depression, you substitute drinking for coping, and
                  problem drinking turns into alcohol abuse, which circles back to
                  worsen the depression. If you are unaware of this cycle, you may
                  not be aware that the drinking is a diversion. But you now have
                  another significant problem habit that tracks with procrastination.
                  Eating excessively can be a behavioral diversion from addressing
                  anxieties, or used to fill hollow hours. After a while, you stop taking
                  medication for preventing a coronary. It is inconvenient, and you’d
                  rather eat chocolate instead.
                      Diversionary practices were known even in ancient times.
                  Aesop had many fables to tell, such as about a rabbit who napped
                  while a turtle passed by to win a race and about a grasshopper who
                  fiddled the summer away while hard-working ants prepared for
                  the winter.
                      If you are not diverting from your most pressing and impor-
                  tant activity, you are not procrastinating. In this chapter, I will show
                  you how to end behavioral diversions and use the time you gain
                  to produce and prosper. You’ll see how to sidestep behavioral diver-
                  sions, make better use of time management information, apply an
                  arsenal of cognitive and behavioral productivity techniques, boost
                  your self-regulation skills, and harness the power of grinding it
                  out when the going gets tough. Let’s begin.


                  Behavioral Diversions That
                  Lead to Procrastination


                  Behavioral diversions are a classic sign of procrastination. When
                  you behaviorally divert, you substitute avoidance for productive
                  actions. Instead of studying for tomorrow’s test, you go to a party.
                  Instead of dealing with an unpleasant conflict, you shop. Instead
                  of overcoming your fear of making presentations, you decide to
                  do some leisurely reading.
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