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            It always seemed irrelevant to me whether the people who worked for
         me liked me or respected me. That was their business. What I cared about
         was whether they did their jobs well.
            That said, it is incredibly important to motivate talented people. I just
         don’t believe that ersatz emotions like “friendship,”“family love,”or “orga-
         nizational patriotism”do motivate intelligent people.We’ll talk about how
         you win the loyalty of a brilliant team in a minute.
                                         But first, I want to say a few more
                                       words about your relationship with
                 PAY THE PEOPLE        your coworkers. I am a big believer in
                 WHO WORK FOR          being standoffish on the social front.
                 YOU THE               Having an occasional group dinner with
                 RESPECT OF            your executives is certainly appropriate,
                 UNDERSTANDING         but having your social life revolve
                 WHY THEY WORK         around the office is very dangerous.
                 HARD. IT’S NOT OUT      The truth is that if there are 10 peo-
                 OF LOVE FOR YOU.      ple on your senior management team,
                 IT IS TO FEED         there’s a good chance that you’re going
                 THEIR FAMILIES.       to fire three of them, and that’s simply
                                       because things change. Your business
                                       faces a new challenge, and one of your
         managers can’t rise to the occasion, so you need somebody else. And you
         have to be able to make that decision.
            That didn’t mean that I wasn’t friendly with my employees in the office,
         but we never got together outside of business events. I didn’t let our chil-
         dren play together. I didn’t allow our lives to become entangled.
            Even the business events I would keep to a minimum. For example, I
         actually do play golf, but nobody ever knew it. In the 35 years I was in cor-
         porate life, I never once went to a conference and picked up a golf club
         and played with anybody I worked with. I never wanted to spend four
         hours making chitchat with my boss, well aware that by the fourteenth
         hole, it’s easy to say something stupid.



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