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                                            GREAT COMMUNICATION SECRETS OF GREAT LEADERS
                  Another soldier followed him out and returned minutes later with a big smile.
                  “Abe’s happy,” he said. The major asked how he could tell. “For one thing, he
                  wanted to know, who’s that young major?”
                      The major was one that all of America would know two decades later:
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                  Colin Powell.

                  That’s a great story about an American hero!
                      Now imagine that a leader who was recounting this event simply stood up
                  and said, “Once upon a time a young soldier gave a briefing to a general and
                  made a positive impression.”
                      True, but bor—ing! By the second line, members of the audience would
                  be checking voicemail with their cell phones, answering email on their PDAs,
                  or catnapping. They would not be engaged. Why? Because a clinical rendition
                  omits context and character. It is from those two elements that good stories
                  emerge.
                      Context  and  character  reverberate  throughout  the  communications  of
                  effective leadership communicators. Rosabeth Moss Kanter includes many
                  stories from the front lines of change; if you just read the stories from her
                  many books over the past two decades, you can get a good sense of the change
                  that American management has experienced in recent times. Colin Powell is a
                  good stump speaker, filling his speeches with stories from his life as well as
                  stories of people he has met along the way. Harvey Penick’s coaching method,
                  which is reflected in his books, uses stories to illustrate points about the game
                  of golf, as well as points about life in general. Mother Teresa told stories about
                  the work in her mission to interviewers as well as to famous and not-so-
                  famous people as a means of encouraging people to help the poor, not only in
                  India but in their own communities.
                      Through storytelling, leaders can frame a current experience through the
                  prism of context and character—their own or someone else’s. Stories can be
                  used to uplift the spirit, to caution the unwise, to provide insight into experi-
                  ences, and even to laugh at a situation. Leaders who learn to tell stories are
                  leaders who are innately aware of the human condition, an insight that pre-
                  pares them to lead others (see Figure 12-1).



                  THE POWER OF A STORY
                  From our earliest days, we are told stories, or parables, about the rewards of
                  being a good child and the dangers of being a bad one. Grimm’s Fairy Tales
                  are classic examples of the consequences of poor decision making. Little Red
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