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               tain. I say, "force yourself," because at  first  a little  effort
               may be necessary; however in an  amazingly  short time,
               you'll find  that  there is no effort at  all required to make
               yourself want  to remember  anything.  The  fact that  you
               are  reading  this book, is  your  first  forward step. You
               wouldn't be reading it if you  didn't  want  to remember,
               or  if  you weren't interested  in improving your memory.
               "Without motivation there can hardly be remembrance."
                 Aside from intending to remember,  confidence  that you
               will  remember is  also  helpful.  If you tackle  any  memory
               problem with  the  thought, "I will  remember";  more often
               than  not, you will.  Think  of your memory as  a  sieve.  Each
               time that  you feel  or  say, "I  have an awful  memory,"  or,
               "I'll  never be able  to remember this," you put  another  hole
               in  the  sieve. If, on the other hand, you  say, "I  have a won-
               derful memory," or, "I'll remember this easily," you're
               plugging up one of those holes.
                 A lot of people I know, invariably  ask me why they
               can't  remember  a  thing,  even though  they write down every-
               thing they wish  to remember. Well,  that's like  asking why
               they can't  swim well,  even  though they tie a twenty  pound
               stone around  their necks.  The very  fact that  they do write
               it, is probably why they forget; or  rather, why  they didn't
               remember in  the first place. As far as I'm concerned, the
               phrase,  "I  forgot" should not  be in  the language. It  should
               be, "I didn't remember in the first place."
                 You cannot forget  anything  you ever really remembered.
               If  you were to write things down with the intent of aiding
               your memory, or with  the conscious thought of helping you
               to be exact with the  information,  that would  be  fine. How-
               ever, using pencil and  paper as  a substitute for memory
               (which most people do), is certainly not going to  improve
               it. Your  handwriting may improve, or the speed  of your
               writing might improve, but your memory will get worse
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