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           Within Brad’s own organization, both successes and failures are similarly
        an opportunity to grow. It is primarily from his failures that he learns where
        things should improve. Failure is his most painful feedback, which shows
        where improvement is needed. A competitor’s successes provided Brad with
        the impetus to pressure top management for more resources and new prod-
        ucts and to pressure his own organization to improve. For him, both positive
        and negative experiences and feedback are opportunities for growth, improve-
        ment, and strength.

        Achievement and Success Require a Positive Mindset
        That You Can Learn and Develop
        Achievement and success depend upon a positive mindset that can be devel-
        oped. Whether it is inborn or learned, some people seem to approach life with
        an outlook characterized by undefeatable optimism. In the face of disaster
        they, like Brad, have the knack of finding solutions for turning problems into
        opportunities.
           More pessimistic leaders tend to view difficult situations as obstacles. They
        are often more prone to responding negatively to pressure and are often unable
        to convert tension and anxiety into energy. Those with a more negative mind-
        set often have not learned to control their inner state.
           The positive thinker tends to handle stressful situations with positive inter-
        nal messages such as these:

         ■ Yes, this is a difficult situation, and a solution is out there waiting to be
            found (“Yes, and,” versus “Yes, but”). I need to focus, to think, to control
            the problem, but the solution is there.
         ■ Solving difficult problems is like walking a tightrope, one careful step
            at a time.
         ■ I am going to do the best I can even though this is going to be a difficult
            situation. I will be courageous. (A nationally known news anchor, in a
            recent interview, confessed to almost daily feeling the fear of failure, the
            fear in his job. But he also said that success is the ability to fight and, for
            one more day, overcome the fear.)
         ■ I choose to reduce tension and anxiety by positively focusing on the
            part of the task I am working on today. John Wooden, the legendary
            coach and all-time victory leader in men’s college basketball while at
            UCLA, always told his players not to focus on the goal but on the steps.
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