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26   Reading Between the Signs


                                Domains of Intercultural Communication
                              The field of intercultural communication now includes proxemics
                              (the study of social and personal space); paralinguistics (the study
                              of the way something is said, including intonation, speech rate,
                              and the use of silence); and kinesics (the study of body motions
                              such as gestures, eye gaze, and facial expression). A basic tenet is
                              that all these channels carry messages, whether intended or unin-
                              tended. Underlying the study of the specific manifestations of any
                              culture is the recognition that each culture has its own set of val-
                              ues that color its perceptions and behaviors. Our values pertain to
                              everything from our connection to family and friends, our ideas
                              about nature, our beliefs about the roles of the sexes, and our
                              relationship to authority to our views on the meaning of life.

                              Proxemics
                              Just as animals aggressively defend their territory against perceived
                              intruders, so do we bristle and hiss when we feel our personal
                              space is being violated. Tailgaters make us agitated and lead some
                              to display bumper stickers declaring “If you can read this you’re
                              too close!” We feel strangely homeless when someone takes “our
                              seat” in a class we have been attending. On a crowded elevator
                              we try to hold ourselves in and become extremely uncomfortable
                              if a stranger touches us. We feel incensed when our seatmate on
                              an airline flight takes possession of “our” armrest. And these in-
                              vasions are perpetrated by people with whom we share a com-
                              mon culture!
                                 Suppose you find yourself the only passenger on a bus. After
                              riding for a while, you notice a new rider getting on board. What
                              could be more unnerving than seeing him pick, of all the possible
                              seats, the one right next to you? Yet this behavior would seem
                              perfectly appropriate to most Arabs. In contrast to American pat-
                              terns of personal space, where we try to maintain a bubble of
                              space around us, Arabs prefer to position themselves close to oth-
                              ers. “For Arabs the space which is comfortable for ordinary social
                              conversation is approximately the same as that which Westerners
                              reserve for intimate conversation” (Nydell 1996, 51). Part of the
                              Arab preference for standing close to conversational partners stems
                              from their desire to be able to smell each other’s breath. To the
                              Arab, “To smell one’s friend is not only nice but desirable, for to
                              deny him your breath is to act ashamed” (Hall 1966, 160).








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