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No involvement, no commitment.
Now, in the early stages -- when a person is new to an organization or when a child in the family is
young -- you can pretty well give them a goal and they'll buy it, particularly if the relationship,
orientation, and training are good.
But when people become more mature and their own lives take on a separate meaning, they want
involvement, significant involvement. And if they don't have that involvement, they don't buy it.
Then you have a significant motivational problem which cannot be solved at the same level of thinking
that created it.
That's why creating an organizational mission statement takes time, patience, involvement, skill, and
empathy. Again, it's not a quick fix. It takes time and sincerity, correct principles, and the courage
and integrity to align systems, structure, and management style to the shared vision and values. But
it's based on correct principles and it works.
An organizational mission statement -- one that truly reflects the deep shared vision and values of
everyone within that organization -- creates a great unity and tremendous commitment. It creates in
people's hearts and minds a frame of reference, a set of criteria or guidelines, by which they will govern
themselves. They don't need someone else directing, controlling, criticizing, or taking cheap shots.
They have bought into the changeless core of what the organization is about.

Application Suggestions

1. Take the time to record the impressions you had in the funeral visualization at the beginning of
this chapter. You may want to use the chart below to organize your thoughts.
2. Take a few moments and write down your roles as you now see them. Are you satisfied with
that mirror image of your life.
3. Set up time to completely separate yourself from daily activities and to begin work on your
personal mission statement.
4. Go through the chart in Appendix A showing different centers and circle all those you can
identify with. Do they form a pattern for the behavior in your life? Are you comfortable with the
implications of your analysis.
5. Start a collection of notes, quotes, and ideas you may want to use as resource material in writing
your .personal mission statement.
6. Identify a project you will be facing in the near future and apply the principles of mental
creation. Write down the results you desire and what steps will lead to those results.
7. Share the principles of Habit 2 with your family or work group and suggest that together you
begin the process of developing a family or group mission statement.

Habit 3: Put First Things First TM -- Principles of Personal Managemen

Things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least
-- Goeth
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Will you take just a moment and write down a short answer to the following two questions? Your
answers will be important to you as you begin work on Habit 3.
Question 1: What one thing could you do (you aren't doing now) that if you did on a regular basis,
would make a tremendous positive difference in your personal life?
Question 2: What one thing in your business or professional life would bring similar results?
We'll come back to these answers later. But first, let's put Habit 3 in perspective