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                               your approval or agreement will not impress your audience. Even if
                               you’re bashful or self-effacing, speak in bold, unambiguous terms.
                               Don’t drop subtle hints when the situation calls for you to speak up
                               and be specific.
                                  If you want to persuade others, realize that they’re more likely to
                               follow you if you’re simple and direct. Don’t waste words. Beware of
                               giving too much information when trying to explain a point. Filter
                               out extraneous data so that you only talk about what matters most.
                                  Here are three ways to speak with power:
                                  Emphasize action words: Before making an important point, iden-
                               tify the action word in your sentence. Then pause for a half-second
                               or so just before and after you say it. Action drives meaning, so don’t
                               rush over your verbs.
                                  Vary  your  volume: Powerful  speakers  are  not  monotones.  They
                               whisper to entice others to listen and raise their voice when they’re
                               excited or surprised. Keep tweaking the dial on your voice volume to
                               reflect the ebb and flow of conversation.
                                  Paint word pictures: Speak in visual terms to captivate listeners.
                               Rather than tell them what to think, describe what you see in precise,
                               colorful language.





                                     “The finest eloquence is that which gets things done.”
                                                                         —David Lloyd George



















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