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closer to a solution. If you’re the one battling in the
        trenches, what’s your suggestion to others who can help?
        Communicate the next action as clearly as the problem and
        you’ll certainly be labeled a leader.
           Whether you’re walking into the boardroom or the
        client’s office, be ready to state a viewpoint or offer a rec-
        ommendation. Consider that a key value you can con-
        tribute.


            Know When to Blink: Fade Away Favorably

        The head honcho strolls in late to a meeting, keeping
        everyone waiting. Or, she has the last word before a dra-
        matic exit, leaving everyone scurrying to carry out the last
        command. Have an argument at home, and the same dy-
        namic happens. The husband grabs his coat and exits with
        a terse, “I’m going to Atlanta.” Done. Gone. So there.
           The same dynamic happens in e-mail conversations
        when one writer stops responding. The implication is re-
        jection: Done. Gone. I’ve more important things to do
        than e-mail you about silly little matters like this. Why
        don’t you get on with your life and leave me alone?
           On the other hand, you can feel a little silly carrying on
        an e-mail conversation like this:
           “Our proposal to Universal is due on Friday. Please let
        me know when you’ve submitted it.”
           “I sent it out last Tuesday.”
           “Good. I’m hoping they make a decision before I leave
        for vacation next week.”
           “Yes, me too.”
           “Please copy me on any further correspondence with
        their proposal team.”
           “Will do. Sure thing.”
           “Thank you.”


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