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                                                      Waiting for Other People
                                            There’s one other external factor that might lead to
                                            procrastination: waiting for other people.You may be an
                                angel of timely behavior, but your boss, your spouse, or your employee
                                may not be. Changing someone else’s behavior is even more difficult
                                than changing your own. Here are a few ideas that may help:
                                 • Set precise timelines and deadlines for others.
                                 • Set false, early deadlines, to make it more probable that they’ll actu-
                                  ally finish on time.
                                 • Communicate your frustration with their behavior, if necessary.
                                 • Encourage them to use some of the strategies outlined in this chap-
                                  ter to overcome their tendency to procrastinate.
                               increase significantly” is less productive and has less impact than
                               saying, “Our goal is to increase sales by 12%.”

                               5. You fear change. This is one of the more deeply psychologi-
                               cal reasons for procrastination. All living things are creatures of
                               habit. Doing something the way you’ve always done it seems
                               safe. Making changes sometimes courts the unexpected—and
                               the unexpected can sometimes be unpleasant. So fear of
                               change is a natural, human reaction. But it can also be debilitat-
                               ing, encouraging procrastination and deferring changes that are
                               useful and beneficial.
                                   If you procrastinate because you’re in a rut—because you’re
                               resisting change—any of the following might work for you:
                                   • Change your physical environment. Old habits cling to
                                     old places. Try a new room, a new chair, a new office, a
                                     new anything. You’ll be surprised how such a change can
                                     spark actions on duties you’re avoiding.
                                   • Change your routines and patterns. Take a different route
                                     to get to work. You may be surprised at how you might
                                     feel toward a procrastinated obligation when you get to
                                     the office.
                                   • Do nothing. Just walk into your home or office, sit down,
                                     and stare at the wall. You’ll soon be so bored that a
                                     change will be precisely what you want.
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