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236    What Type of Leader Are You?




           Prior to joining her current company, Beth had spent 10
           years working as a consultant in a large consulting firm.
           After a year with that firm, Beth wanted to leave. She did not
           respect the owner, she felt limited by the firm’s rules on how
           consultants must function with clients, and she detested the
           constant firm meetings. Still, she also reasoned that the
           money was good, the firm had prestige, and she didn’t know
           what else was available. She would have to research her
           options, but the time she had for doing so was limited by her
           workweek of 50+ hours. Beth worked unhappily in the firm
           for eight more years, until she finally realized that she was
           relying solely on logic and ignoring her heart. This had
           immobilized her and prevented her from taking action.



        Development Stretches for Fives


        CHART 7.6  Fives: Development Stretches
        Center of Intelligence  Activities for Fives That Develop That Center
        Head Center           Objective analysis
                              Remember that logical analysis is not necessarily
                              objective; logic can have its own bias, depending on the
                              logic used.
                              Astute insight
                              Make sure your insights include information about feelings
                              as well as facts.
                              Productive planning
                              Don’t overplan or overstrategize; remember, it is not
                              always possible to know everything before you develop a
                              plan.
        Heart Center          Empathy
                              Learn to feel your own feelings in real time, not after the
                              fact. This will enable you to read other people’s feelings
                              more accurately and to use this information in decision
                              making.
                              Authentic relating
                              Create fewer communication barriers between yourself
                              and others; people will then give you more truthful
                              information.
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