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              just by looking at you whether you are lit up and enjoying life or
              are pallid and gray from sitting at home in front of the TV or surf-
              ing the Net. You too can stand out from
              a crowd. Just start doing something that
              makes you feel absolutely fabulous.         An effort impelled
                 In the space provided in this section,   by desire must also
              draw up your own list of activities that    have an automatic or
              light you up, turn you on, and make you     subconscious energy to
              feel alive and wonderful. This is essen-    aid its realization.
              tial information if you are interviewing
              for a job and can make the difference                      —MAN RAY
              between being hired or not. If you are
              starting your own business, you’ll need
              to be energized and attractive to prospective clients—so, if you
              are feeling down in the dumps or just plain exhausted, it is time to
              find something fun that gives you energy and makes you feel alive.
              Doing so is more important than you realize. This dynamic isn’t a
              mystery. Imagine you are interviewing two candidates, both cur-
              rently unemployed, for the same job opening, and they are in all
              respects equally qualified. One candidate has stopped all the fun
              and exciting activities in her life, because she didn’t think she could
              afford them anymore, while the other candidate has kept up her
              passion for dancing. Which one will get the job? My money is on
              the dancer, because she’ll show up more energized, radiant, and full
              of joy and vigor.
                 Write down as many ideas as you can think of, and then pick
              one or two to get started with right away. Again, do this now. (I
              hope you are getting the message.)

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