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STEP 2: IDENTIFY YOUR PERSONAL REQUIREMENTS                      55


              103. You make a concerted effort to fit in, regardless of the situation.

                    Need to be accepted/liked/approved of/included.
              104. A balanced life? That’s for wimps!

                    Need to be busy/work.

                    Need to accomplish/achieve.

                    Need to win/be the best.

              105. You are overly generous and insist on treating friends and family,
                  even though you really can’t afford it.
                    Need to be appreciated/liked/valued.

                    Need to be cherished/loved.

              106. If you are out to dinner with a date, you insist on paying your way,
                  even if your date wants to treat you.

                    Need to be free of obligation/independent.

              107.  You have to be the boss, even if that means running your own
                  business or company.
                    Need for power/authority/control.

                    Need for freedom/independence.

              108. You play full out to win. You don’t let others beat you if you can
                  help it.

                    Need to win/be the best.
              109. You aren’t a very gracious loser. You really hate losing and have a
                  hard time disguising the fact.

                    Need to win/be the best.

              110.  You prefer to facilitate a meeting, even if it isn’t your meeting.

                    Need for control/power.
                    Need to be free/independent/unrestricted.
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